Men’s sexual health - pleasure and the male orgasm
M marks the spot
If you’re feeling a little kinky but want to do something more than the usual, we have something for you. It not overtly headboard-banging romp that you’d normally read about and have difficulties to perform or figure out. What we have here is something so simple but can be so effective that you might just wanna go to the next level of sexual excitement while having this as your prelude.
It’s called the M spot and it’s actually the short for the Mmmmm that you’ll get out of this new sexy move. You can actually spot a pair of these spots so this makes it doubly exciting but less taxing at the same time. What’s so great about this sex spot is that you can stimulate them from outside your and your partner’s body. It’s very much like the G-spot, but that one you can only get from inside of the female’s vagina or the male’s anus. These places might actually be a bit tacky and too conspicuous when you’re in the deserted subway train heating things up. But these M spots are not only be more accessible, the best part about it is that they are present on both men and women. This is certainly mutual masturbation on a new dimension!
I bet you’re all ears now to know where they are. I must warn you though that they are actually not easy to find. Though they are external, the catch is that you've got to already be somewhere in between getting it on and popping. In other words, you have to be sexually aroused first so that you’ll reap the optimum benefits of these M spots. If not, you’re likely to not feel like much of anything at all. Though at first, you might find it to be a little ticklish, but then again, that’s on how much you’re willing to be tickled.
So here it is, since I know you’re dying to feel the Mmmm. First thing you’ll do is to stand up and to strip off. That’s right, take off those shirt and pants and anything fancy that you’re on. Gently put your hands on your hips. This will be a lot more fun if you’re doing this with your partner.
Afterwards the stripping, feel you way around your pelvis. First you start on where your hands are resting, you can compare that as something like a big "shelf" of bone. You must grip that bone, while at the same time, getting a feel of the shapes are in that area. Now, don’t get too carried away. Concentrate next on where the tips of your fingers are traveling and feel things. Get your way around that area while being gentle about it. Do remember to relax as you let your stomach muscles give way completely. As a further tip, do try sitting down if this can help you relax the pelvis area so you’ll get better results. I’m sure it will be easier for you to find these spots if you have bigger hands or a smaller waist. If such is the case, then your fingertips may probably be on "the spots" already.
Unless so, you can try moving your hands forward and eventually over and around the front of your tummy. Go slow and explore the area bit by bit until the time when you’ll find the edge of your pelvic bone. Since there’s a pair of these then your hands now are exploring on both sides. After this, try reaching around the ridge of bone you’re into and then proceed to pressing around the insides to your tummy. Gently dig in with your fingertips, with preferably short fingernails and then you’re at it! These spots are right at the edge of that bone, around the insides of it and not overly on the top of it. As a result, your fingertips must now be somewhere below and just a little to the sides of your and your partner’s belly-button.
Now I’ve mentioned before that this exercise works better with a partner. And rightly so, for two heads and a pair of hands are always better than one. Forgive the pun, not intended. It cannot really be full described here in details but it’ll be better if you’ll let your partner do the exploring. It's way easier to find your M spots if your partner is the one searching instead. If you look for these spots yourself, chances are, you’ll only end up pressing them in the right places but not knowing it. Think about how it would feel like to tickle yourself, and you’ll get the picture of why it just doesn't work that way. So instead, go and get naked with your partner and be ready to explore. You can engage in your usual foreplay for a while. When time comes that you fell that both of you are really ready for sex, then have your partner stand at your back and let him or her proceed as given instructed above. I’m sure that with enough exploring long enough, they're bound to find these very rewarding spots. But when they end up just tickling you, then they're probably not pressing hard enough so encourage them. I assure you, given enough time and patience to find them, you and you're partner will rev up your foreplay a notch higher and sex will definitely be better!
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