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If you think that withdrawal is a method that is the sole domain of the male, you are horribly mistaken. The effectiveness of this method lies on both of the partners. The communication between partners is imperative before and during sex to stop a hasty and clumsy and withdrawal. It is also as important that the male must be knowledgeable and experienced about his very own body. Withdrawal is never effective if the male partner will be unable to withdraw before his ejaculation. Needless to say, if you are a virgin, or you happen to be a cut above the rest of males and had never been too good with touching yourself to orgasm, withdraw from withdrawal.
To ensure no sperm from a pre-cum will stray to the vagina during sex, the male partner must urinate and wipe the tip of the penis before another intercourse. To spice things up, ask your partner to perform an oral sex on you so she can help in wiping out the pre-cum while at the same time stimulating you to an erection that will prepare you for some humping. During sex, you can have vaginal-penile sex until you feel near to ejaculation.
When you feel close to your ejaculation, you must hurriedly signal your partner to stop titillating you and must withdraw your penis from your partner’s vagina and crotch. Both of you can now continue to stimulate your self or each other to orgasm as long as you both avoid any form of sperm contact with the vulva. Be alerted that even sperm that is outside the vagina, but is in the vulva or on the legs of close proximity, can still help the sperm travel to the uterus. Needless to say, this will still cause pregnancy and STD’s. Other forms of stimulation after the withdrawal that will help both you and your partner reach mutual orgasm is known to reduce anxiety about the withdrawn ejaculation. This also creates greater intimacy which fosters a deeper communication and reduces the risk of an unwanted pregnancy.
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